[#633] Day Drinkin’


Girl there’s just something bout nothin’ to do
We could turn a happy hour right into two
Three or four if you want… It’d be a shame if we don’t

Parmalee, ♫Day Drinkin’♫


Life’s been pretty good lately and while it may have cut into the time I take to blog these days I consider it an even trade. This way I don’t end up getting burned out or think that it is a chore, which I think happened somewhere along the way at the beginning of the year. I was doing a lot of things and became overwhelmed to the point where I wasn’t enjoying anything. Thankfully with some help from great people around me it was able to turn around and yes I’m not doing as much as I used to but I think what does go up on the site will have the same passion as I’ve always had.

One thing that I’ve mentioned before (at least I’m fairly certain of) is that I have contoured the brands and events that I’m paired with. I’ve made sure that they are not only a good fit but won’t require that I kill myself trying to keep up with deadlines and goals, which I believe is what happened which ended up getting myself in two deep of water at one point and I am a fairly competent swimmer…but sometimes even the best can drown.

The focus of this entry is something I don’t do often enough which is creating a scene that focuses on something other than my entire body or even my face. I always thought that is what blogging was…to always show your face in photos but it’s honestly not. Given the opportunity to wear the “Voom Sneakers” from Native Urban and the “Lawrence Cargo Shorts” from Noir, I wanted to make the best of it with a close-up shot.

The “Voom Sneakers” have what I’d consider both a classic and modern appeal. What draws me to them is that they are similar in style to a shoe brand that stars with an “A” and ends with “S” but has touches that make it unique to Native Urban. This store excels when it comes to footwear in terms of not only style but also with the ability to customize just about every part of the shoe (for All Colors pack owners).

It’s shorts season and I am a fan of cargo shorts for the simple fact is the amount of pockets most styles have. Noir does an excellent job with the “Lawrence Cargo Shorts” and which has some nice features including boxers with the option to hide or show them. The two main side pockets have some bonuses with a wallet complete with chain attachment and the right has a pack of cigarettes. Truthfully I love the wallet with the chain and even if I’m not a smoker the pack of cigs is a nice touch and adds an extra bit of cool factor.

I can also freely admit that the pattern being worn (Tartan 2) was purchased by mistake as I was trying to get a different version but I still really like this style as well so I’m considering it a happy accident!

Native Urban – Voom Sneakers (All Colors)

  • Original Mesh
  • 15 colors with 10 Customizable Parts
  • Compatible with Belleza (Jake), Maitreya (Lara – Hi and Low), Signature (Gianni) and Unrigged
  • Can be found exclusively @ Anthem until 05/30/19

Another thing I’m going to admit to is that the song I picked to accompany this blog was one that I heard in a commercial for alcoholic iced tea…which I find pretty amusing but the fact that Parmalee is a band I’m familiar with (before their country music days) made it worth using regardless of how I came across it.

Figured it would be an amusing story to share all the same; if I’m laughing at it there’s probably someone who will read it that will get a kick out of it too. As you can see I also did an alternate shot which at any other time would have been the primary one for the blog but because I didn’t want to detract from the shoes and shorts I am throwing it in as an added bonus (as well as because I had fun taking photos.

I feel it is also acceptable to do some “Day Drinkin'” when you’re just having a chillax moment on the pool deck of your house as I’m doing. Of course it is worth noting that I condone responsible activity when it comes to consuming adult beverages to help make things clear! I’m not one of those buzzkill kind of people just as long as things are done safely and won’t cause harm to others which means party on but do it reasonably!


I have taken more out of alcohol than alcohol has taken out of me.
Winston Churchill


HAIR: Modulus – Xavier Hair
HEAD: LeLutka – Guy v3.3
SKIN: Clef de Peau – Norman (Tone 01)
BEARD: Clef de Peau – Beard v 30 (Blonde)

SHORTS: Noir – Lawrence Cargo Shorts (Tartan 2) ✦ Recent Release
SHOES: Native Urban (Store / MP) – Voom Sneakers @ AnthemNEW


[#632] Bring Me Back To Life


But I must be weak
If you couldn’t tell, I couldn’t breathe
Bring me back to life now
Bring me back to peace
Give me back the sun now
Can you give it back to me?

The Dangerous Summer, ♫Bring Me Back To Life♫


As I’m sitting here typing this the weather is insanely beautiful and I’ve got the window open and it’s pretty calm and peaceful. I feel the photo that I did yesterday reflects the mood of right this minute but the weather has been nice over the weekend so far with only a small bit of rain so I can’t complain about that. This is probably the unofficial kickoff to me posting lots of warm weather photos because there’s no reason why I or anyone else would take photos with jackets or parkas (clothing of that type is done for at least 4 or 5 months).

Today’s the last day of Pose Fair and like many of my fellow event bloggers, I encourage you if you haven’t been there to take a quick look to see if there’s something you might need for blogging or photography purposes. HB Poses released a great surfboard prop and pose set at the event that I felt should get some coverage especially with the mood that I’m in.

My photo was also inspired by the music video for the song I picked as the soundtrack as it features surfing to a degree as well as my look may have also caught some of the vibes from the surfer in the video as well. I wasn’t looking to directly take from it as that’s never my intention when it comes to things that inspire me but I did want to pay a little tribute at least.

HB Poses – Summer Is Coming (Male)

  • Bento static poses
  • 5 poses inside mesh surfboard prop
  • Poses adjustable by clicking surfboard
  • Exclusive to Pose Fair which ends tonight (05/25)

Man Cave is the place to go if you want to check out this slick hairstyle by lock&tuft. Now whenever my son Eli (aka Alyx Banks) releases a new hair that has references to members of the family (in this case my brother/his uncle Lucky) it takes precedence for me to blog as soon as I possibly can. Not that other styles are not as good but it just makes it super exciting.

I have to say that it has a surfer look to it and that is why setting it is a the centerpiece of the look was important to me; I even styled it as a light/bleached blonde tone that works with the windlight I chose to make sure it didn’t completely get washed out.

The wetsuit I have on is a part of a gacha from RIOT that I found as a bargain (when you have placed yourself on a budget it helps keep the cost done). The blue in the wetsuit (which is referred to as glacier) works with the scene as well and more so than any of the other colors in the set. Plus I figured going with a shade of blue in a surfing pose worked best.

lock&tuft – Lucky

  • Original mesh
  • Resize on click
  • 5 colors packs (or complete FatPack)
  • Exclusive to Man Cave until 06/11/19

Now I can look forward to more blogs with no shirts, short sleeves or tanktops as well as shorts that I can visit beaches and parks to photograph at. This is literally my favorite time of the year so I’m going to make use of it and pull out some of my favorite songs for warm weather that haven’t found their way onto the blog as soundtracks already.

That only leads me to make a small plea to the content creators on the grid. Now you can start making hair and clothing to reflect the change of seasons (at least I hope you take it into consideration!)  I’m really looking forward to seeing what I come up with now that the weather doesn’t suck and my mood has improved exponentially.


“There are a million ways to surf, and as long as you’re smiling you’re doing it right.”


POSE: HB Poses – Summer Is Coming (Male) @ Pose FairNEW

HAIR: lock&tuft – Lucky @ Man CaveNEW
HEAD: LeLutka – Guy v3.3
SKIN: Clef de Peau – Norman (Tone 01)

Wetsuit: RIOT – Surf’s Up / Wetsuit – Glacier ✦ Gacha


[#631] The Rains of Castamere


And so he spoke, and so he spoke
That lord of Castamere
But now the rains weep o’er his hall
With no one there to hear
Yes, now the rains weep o’er his hall
And not a soul to hear

Ramin Dijwadi feat. The National, ♫The Rains of Castamere♫


Tomorrow marks the end of an era as HBO will air it’s finale Episode of “Game of Thrones”. Many of my friends and colleagues were huge fans of the show and tried for a long time for me to watch it but at the time I was engrossed in something else. It wasn’t til very recently that I broke down at the behest of my Brenna and also Lucky that I told them I would make sure to catch up so that I could watch the final episode the night it aired. I’m very close to achieving that goal and have been consumed by it; watching it feverishly. Now knowing what everyone else knows that are fans of this show…that it is epic.

Everyone has a favorite character whether it be Dany or Jon (who are probably the main two that people are fans of) but the one person that’s stood out to me with great writing and even better acting by Peter Dinklage, is Tyrion Lannister. The character comes from a house full of really bad people and while he’s not necessarily clean himself, he’s proven to me at least that he has the most heart and he thinks very hard before he acts. The world he comes from looks down on him for being a dwarf and with everything set against him has come along way from where he started.

I’m not sure how the story will end which is the fun and scary part about any show so I will be waiting along with everyone else to see exactly how it all plays out.

I was certainly worried about how well poses would work after shaping myself like a dwarf but luckily with the cool “DYLN” pose set by DAE, which is available right now at Pose Fair, it all worked out very nicely. DAE is a store that can be filed under the stores that I’m not as familiar with but I have heard of them before, I just have never really utilized them until now. With covering all the different stores for my coverage of the Fair, I usually try to choose several that are not sponsors or stores I see in every day conversations.

The actual pose from the set that I chose looked and felt to me like something Tyrion himself might do on the show and wouldn’t essentially be breaking character as essentially when we do scenes that are homages to something we try to keep it as true to the source as possible. When the idea came to me I was pretty excited.

DAE – DYLN Pose Set

  • Bento static poses
  • 6 poses to choose from
  • Exclusive to Pose Fair until 05/25/19

Image Essentials provided the backdrop that makes up 3/4 of the scene outside of the torches from Aisling and myself. While it is harder to show features of something like a prop, I can give you the pertinent info that is necessary. It’s an original mesh item that can be resized by a menu that comes up when clicked in case you want to make it monstrous.

That brings me to what I’m wearing and it’s definitely a mix of things and much like the last post I did (even though it was female items) it’s comprised of mostly gacha items and one new event item which happened to coincide nicely as far as timing went to do this post. Many creators lately have been doing items that were inspired by the show and even the Enchantment event is fully dedicated with their current round currently titled “The Iron Throne”.

Hotdog has made the tunic I am wearing that is a part of Enchantment; it’s called the “Casterly Rock Tunic” and it’s very nice. There are two versions to it (I bought the leather version as it suited me better than the noble version). It comes with a HUD that allows you to change the outer part of the tunic as well as the inside part as well. It’s not fitted for a specific body so with the right alpha cuts it should work with the main bodies currently out there (save for maybe Aesthetic but for those of you guys with that at least check the demo!)

The pants and boots come from the “Fire and Ice” gacha set by RIOT which was a part of The Epiphany April round. It is likely now in their main store and has sizes for both Belleza (Jake) and Signature (Gianni). The entire set for the males is truly super cool and for fans of the show it’s very accurate with touches that any enthusiast will notice.

There have been a lot of photos I’ve seen that have been GoT themed and many of them are awesome, I hope that those of you who do see this post will think that I captured the essence of it. One thing I know is that it was a lot of fun putting together and will likely do more themed from the show even after it ends as I have a lot of making up for that as well.

Just because the show is ending doesn’t mean a fans love for it will.


“I drink and I know things”
Tyrion Lannister



BACKDROP: Image Essentials (Store / MP) – Dark Gateway
TORCHES: Aisling – Torch

HAIR: elua – Mose
HEAD: LeLutka – Guy v3.3
SKIN: Clef de Peau – Norman (Tone 01)
BEARD: LeLutka – Hip Hip Hooray Beard

TUNIC: HotDog – Casterly Rock Tunic @ EnchantmentNEW
PANTS: RIOT – Fire & Ice Set / Burlap Pants – Cocoa ✦ Gacha Prize
BOOTS: RIOT – Fire & Ice Set / Leather Boots – Cocoa ✦ Gacha Prize


[#628] Darkness, Darkness


Darkness, darkness, be my blanket
Cover me with the endless night
Take away, take away the pain of knowing
Fill the emptiness of right now

The Youngbloods, ♫Darkness, Darkness♫


While this may not be a full on black and white photo (that I said I would do more of) I have to say that it turned out a lot better than I expected. I’ve also started to become a little more comfortable with Depth of Field within the Firestorm viewer, I still have reservations about it. Probably as time goes on I’ll get even more comfortable with using it as an idea dictates but for now I’m going to use it sparingly.

The goal I had when I was putting this idea together in my head was that I wanted to capture what I consider to be solitude in the night, how peaceful it can be and for someone who seems to keep strange hours this is something I’m more familiar with then I’d freely admit to. As I was taking the photos I thought that maybe it would give off the feeling of loneliness and that may come through a bit but in my mind the peaceful quiet while trying to find sleep is what I was truly trying to achieve.

I often find myself saying that Pose Fair is a great place to discover new stores on top of those that I would consider favorites or well liked. This is my first encounter with H.Knauber but seeing the ads for what they have released at the event made it the focus of what would become this photo and scene. The sitting poses of “Posepack Men 02” has given me all I needed to build around it what you are seeing in this blog post. At first my concept wasn’t a night shot but something told me that with the right lighting and the aforementioned depth of field, this would turn out nicely.

The pose pack has 5 different sitting poses that certainly will come in handy in the future but I have to be clear that the pack contains just the poses as there are no props. I chose to park myself on the edge of the bed and for added effect added a furry friend who is chilling as I try to find a way to empty my mind so I can sleep. When you have as many ideas as I do when it comes to taking photos on top of all other daily things, it can get very cluttered in my noggin.

H.Knauber – Posepack Men 02

  • Bento static poses
  • 5 different poses (with mirrors included)
  • Exclusive to Pose Fair until 05/25/19

My wardrobe is comprised of stuff from my closet as my focus for this was the pose itself and building around it as I previously mentioned. Taking into account that it was an evening shot I went with wearing just a tanktop and boxers for a little bit of sex appeal (for lack of a better term). As I look at the photo it seems almost like it could be a dream sequence itself.

I’m not sure if this falls into it but my brother Lucky thought we should keep up the challenges and said that I should do things that were not my normal style. With having a more muted tone for the photo as well as using the depth of field, that to me constitutes as me going out of my comfort zone. Once I get comfortable using this technique maybe I’ll be able to conquer some other ones.


“I’ve always envied people who sleep easily. Their brains must be cleaner, the floorboards of the skull well swept, all the little monsters closed up in a steamer trunk at the foot of the bed.”
David Benioff


POSE: H.Knauber – Posepack Men 02 @ Pose FairNEW

HAIR: Valiant – Brando ✦ No Longer Available
HEAD: LeLutka – Guy v3.3
SKIN: Clef de Peau – Norman (Tone 01)
BEARD: LeLutka – Hip Hip Hooray Beard

TANKTOP: Boo’s Designs – Rob TankTop (Ribbed)
BOXERS: Yack – Boxers


[#627] All Along The Watchtower


All along the watchtower
Princes kept the view
While all the women came and went
Barefoot servants too

Jimi Hendrix Experience, ♫All Along The Watchtower♫


When I was thinking about songs that I felt would go with the visual of this blog I came up with a few of them but the one that stood out was “All Along The Watchtower”. Originally by Bob Dylan, it’s almost always associated with Jimi Hendrix who did a cover version of it a year after it was first recorded. I have nothing against Bob Dylan, the fact remains that I’ve already used some of his songs already and until today have never featured anything from Hendrix, who I have always felt was an amazing talent who left the world too soon. Perhaps maybe some of the best musicians who were gone much too soon could have continued blazing a path or could have fell off the face of the planet but it’s something we’ll never know as we cherish the things they gave us while they were here.

I chose to visit Ironwood Hills, which is a place I enjoy going to when I want to do some kind of post-apocalyptic scenes. Though with this I didn’t throw in any zombies or anything because I’ve done that and I wanted to make it more about anticipation instead of action. While I may not actually be on a watchtower in the scene, I am keeping an eye out with this pose set by Kirek Poses called the “Defense Pack” there are three different poses each with an accompanying rifle. To me the pose I picked really shows that I’m surveying the area but if need but would be ready to defend myself from whatever could be around the corner.

Kirek Poses – Defense Pose Pack

  • Bento static poses (poseball versions included)
  • 3 different poses
  • Rifle for each pose included
  • Pose Fair exclusive until 05/25/19

My wardrobe is a mixture of both old and new but I’m going to focus on the event specific things that have hit some events this month. My glasses are a part of a new gacha from BlankLine that have two different styles of glasses each with different frame colors to play for. Somehow I got lucky and was able to pull the RARE from the machine that includes a HUD that can change the lenses on it with emoji’s and things like that. I am going to have to see if I can get my hands on one of the commons I was looking for because after getting the the most sought after prize, I felt like I shouldn’t keep trying my luck.

I also have been hanging onto these for a bit since Anthem opened because I wanted to break them in for the right scene and they almost made it into the last one but I reserved them for a little longer. I’m talking about the “Kojima Jeans” from Deadwool, and this is I believe the first major jeans release for the store since the collab with Blueberry a few years ago; I may be wrong so if I am I’m sure someone will inform me. These are fantastic and great fitting with several features including three different leg bottom styles (Deep Cuffs, Rolled Up and Stacked) and for those interested in getting the FATPACK there is a cool belt loop chain included but for those of you who just want maybe one or two color choices you’re in luck as well because it is sold separately too.

The beard I picked up from LeLutka maybe a week or so ago has literally been one of my most favorite things ever and seemingly haven’t been able to take photos without it. I think this evening was the first time I went without it as I took Brenna to the big prom that was posted about on Facebook. I wanted to truly clean up well and did so by shaving my face so I looked fresh. I’m sure that by tomorrow the beard will be back or by the time I take the next photo but we will have to see.


“All art is a kind of confession, more or less oblique. All artists, if they are to survive, are forced, at last, to tell the whole story; to vomit the anguish up.”
James Baldwin


LOCATION: Ironwood Hills

POSE: Kirek Poses – Defense Pack @ Pose FairNEW

HAIR: Modulus – Christian Hair
HEAD: LeLutka – Guy v3.3
SKIN: Clef de Peau – Norman (Tone 01) @ A+ EventNEW
BEARD: LeLutka – Hip Hip Hooray Beard

GLASSES: BlankLine – Glasses Gacha 01 RARE @ TMDNEW
TANKTOP: Cold-Ash (Store / MP) – TYLER Tank Top
JEANS: Deadwool – Kojima Jeans (Stack) @ AnthemNEW